When You Don't Know What To Say In The Moment
It's 7pm. She's melting down over homework again. You're exhausted, she's impossible, and you have no idea what magic words will make this stop. Get 24/7 access to a coach who specializes in 6-12-year-old girls — for less than your daily coffee.
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"What do I say when she says she hates her body?"
— Actual message we answered this week
You Need This If...
- You freeze when she says "I hate my body" or "I have no friends"
- Bedtime, homework, or screen time feels like going to war
- You take her eye-rolls and attitude personally (even though you know you shouldn't)
- You're tired of generic advice that doesn't work for girl-specific drama
- You want to stop yelling but don't know what else to do when she's being impossible
- You lie awake worrying you're screwing her up for life
What To Say When You Have No Idea What To Say
Because meltdowns don't happen during business hours, and "just ignore it" isn't helpful when your daughter's world is ending.
Text Your Crisis, Get Real Help
"She's refusing to go to school because of mean girls." "Homework meltdown for the 5th night in a row." Send your SOS anytime, get specific scripts and strategies within 24 hours.
Why She's Acting This Way
Understand the science behind her behavior so you can stop taking it personally. Her brain is literally under construction — here's how to parent the brain she has, not the one you wish she had.
Emergency Scripts For Hard Moments
What to say when she's spiraling about her appearance, friend drama, or feeling left out. Plus how to handle the stuff that makes you want to hide in the bathroom.
From Crisis To Calm In 3 Steps
Tell Us What's Happening
"She's having friendship drama," "Morning routine is a disaster," "I don't know how to talk to her about her changing body." Whatever it is, we've seen it.
Get Your Action Plan
Receive specific, word-for-word scripts you can use today. Plus the science behind why her brain works this way, so you stop feeling like you're going crazy.
Watch The Magic Happen
Use the tools. See her respond differently. Feel like you finally know what you're doing. Message us again when the next crisis hits (because it will).
Get A Girl-Specialist In Your Back Pocket
For less than a fancy coffee, have someone who actually understands 6-12-year-old girls available 24/7. No more frantically googling while she's melting down.
- Message anytime, get help within 24 hours
- Scripts for friendship drama, body image, homework wars
- Brain science that makes her behavior make sense
- Access to all our guides and emergency playbooks
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But Will This Actually Work For MY Daughter?
My daughter is REALLY difficult. Will this work for extreme behavior?
The more challenging she is, the more you need girl-specific strategies. We've helped moms through everything from daily meltdowns to friendship sabotage to "I hate myself" spirals. If it's happening with a 6-12-year-old girl, we've seen it.
What if I message you and my situation is too weird/complicated?
There's no such thing. This week alone we've handled: "She's scared to flush the toilet," "Her friends are pressuring her to have a boyfriend," and "She's convinced she's adopted." Nothing shocks us.
How is this different from asking my mom friends or pediatrician?
Your friends mean well, but they're not trained in girl-specific development. Your pediatrician knows physical health, not emotional regulation. We specialize in the exact age and gender you're dealing with, with scripts that actually work.
I've tried everything. What makes you think this will be different?
Because "everything" you've tried was probably generic parenting advice. Girls aged 6-12 have unique brain development, social pressures, and emotional needs. When you use girl-specific tools, everything changes.
What if I'm just a bad mom and that's the real problem?
Stop. You're not a bad mom. You're a good mom dealing with a phase nobody prepares you for. The fact that you're here looking for help proves you care. Let us show you you're more capable than you think.
Can I really cancel anytime without it being weird?
One click cancellation, no questions asked. But here's what usually happens: moms try it thinking they'll cancel after a month, then realize they finally have someone who understands their specific chaos.
She's Only 6-12 Once
Every day you spend walking on eggshells or taking her behavior personally is a day you could be building connection instead of resentment. Stop suffering through this phase. Get the help you deserve.
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